What resonated with me on a personal level was her perspective on the relationship between failure (I quoted that on my own blog) and the balance between being creative alone but still being in touch with others.

Making a commitment to a creative lifestyle is scary because it can involve a level of risk that most people do not feel is acceptable and almost certainly feel is selfish. It's not a lifestyle that favors safety and sure bets and failure is not just likely but inevitable. Unfortunately it's not considered responsible to put yourself in the position to allow yourself to fail. For every icon like Thwarp, whose triumphs will dwarf her failures and as a result make them seem a necessary part of the journey, there are those who will risk it all only to be seen as utter failures exercising poor judgement, their minor success lost in judgement.

It is perceived to be more responsible to care of business, possibly to the detriment of your soul than it is to take care of your creative self to the detriment of your business and have faith rather than security that things will work out in the end. Because the financial rewards are so slight, there is almost definitely a sacrifice of some values that many people feel are sacrosanct. Not just the money, but the basic ability to care of yourself and your family. That's when all the naysayers comeout of the woodwork saying “You can't… you shoudn't… you have to…”

It's hard not to let those people get you down and dictate your choices, but you can't isolate yourself from them either. Creative people have to be communicators and one can't do that alone.

By the way, did you see Twyla Tharp on the Kennedy Center Honors? She looked so grumpy we made a game out of trying to see if the camera ever caught her smiling. (We counted twice I think. They flashed so briefly, it was hard to tell!)

What resonated with me on a personal level was her perspective on the relationship between failure (I quoted that on my own blog) and the balance between being creative alone but still being in touch with others.

Making a commitment to a creative lifestyle is scary because it can involve a level of risk that most people do not feel is acceptable and almost certainly feel is selfish. It's not a lifestyle that favors safety and sure bets and failure is not just likely but inevitable. Unfortunately it's not considered responsible to put yourself in the position to allow yourself to fail. For every icon like Thwarp, whose triumphs will dwarf her failures and as a result make them seem a necessary part of the journey, there are those who will risk it all only to be seen as utter failures exercising poor judgement, their minor success lost in judgement.

It is perceived to be more responsible to care of business, possibly to the detriment of your soul than it is to take care of your creative self to the detriment of your business and have faith rather than security that things will work out in the end. Because the financial rewards are so slight, there is almost definitely a sacrifice of some values that many people feel are sacrosanct. Not just the money, but the basic ability to care of yourself and your family. That's when all the naysayers comeout of the woodwork saying “You can't… you shoudn't… you have to…”

It's hard not to let those people get you down and dictate your choices, but you can't isolate yourself from them either. Creative people have to be communicators and one can't do that alone.

By the way, did you see Twyla Tharp on the Kennedy Center Honors? She looked so grumpy we made a game out of trying to see if the camera ever caught her smiling. (We counted twice I think. They flashed so briefly, it was hard to tell!)